This is a subject that even the most educated of Biblical scholars cannot agree on, so I'd like to hear some of you inputs.
For those who may not be familiar with "eternal security" it is the belief (or in some cases doctrine) that once salvation is obtained that it cannot be lost no matter how much one backslides. Another way to say it is "Once saved, always saved."
Here are somedirect observances from my life:
I was brought up NOT to believe in eternal security. Both my parents felt that way. One day. a few years before my mother died, I came upon her crying. When I pressed her for the reason she stated that I knew she didn't believe in eternal security, but she was praying that she was wrong for my sister's sake. Pretty soul wrenching discussion.
There is a woman in my church who grew up in this church, left an has now returned, but she WILL NOT re-join the church. She attends regularly with her mother, but refuses membership. Reason: Her view on eternal security differs from that of the denomination.
I'm not going to expound with the first dissertation on this subject, but my gut feeling is, "Why would anyone who has been saved even want to take a chance on the possibility of losing that salvation (even if you're positive that you CAN'T lose your salvation)?"